5 top tips on how to handle 2 under 2 on your own.
Hey mama,
Do you have two little one’s close in age? Under 2 years old? This one is for you xx
I do want to add that these tips are what I personally found helpful.. every child is different and every day is different. Right?
Oky doky, time to head to the playground..
- Preparation – Never underestimate how long it takes to get ready and in the car. Toddler wants to change outfit 3 times before hand remember? Plus the baby just got into the pot plants.
- What ever you do don’t forget ammunition! AKA Snacks! I call snacks ammunition because toddler’s need something to get them off the swing and back to the car. It also diffuses meltdowns and is a mood changer.
- Meet a friend – Having another pair of eyes is a bonus, having someone watch your children whilst you go for a quick pee or feed the baby is another bonus, and having an adult convo is also a bonus.
- Find a park away from main roads. If you have a speedy gonzales toddler like me who makes a dash for anything at the drop of a hat then at least you have time to put the baby down and not lose you S%$t.
- Don’t plan too much & lower your expectations to very low.
I have lovely ideas of taking the girls to the park or the beach, play, happy, mum sips a coffee and the sun is shining.
This happens occasionally.
I plan an outing in the morning then some outdoor time again the afternoon either backyard or park close by. Some day’s you get multiple meltdowns, a fussy teething baby and you forget to pack your own jumper. You question if it’s worth going out at all.
- An extra tip because it’s a big deal taking them out solo 😉 Pack extra stuff in the car. We keep extra nappies, undies, swaddles, change of clothes and hidden snacks just incase.
Find your own little routine, kids love that. Also don’t be afraid to spark a convo with the other mum with her two kids at the park. I’ve made some lovely friendships this way, we’re all in it together.
x